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How I Coped with My Self Doubts






Self doubt is a dangerous thing.

It has always been a struggle for me to face my choices with all the negative thoughts boggling my mind.

What if I'm not good enough? What if I made the wrong choice? What if I can't do it? What if I fail? What if..

All these what ifs that are holding me back is depressing.

Was depressing.

It took me a while, a looong while to not get past it but to live through it, with it. I know that there will be self doubts. It's constant, always reminding me of what I lack as if it's following me incessantly. But eventually, I learned to flow with it.

When self doubts start clogging your thoughts, learn to ignore it and focus on your goal. Always focus on what you want to accomplish and your plan to actually get through it. Afterall, your goal should not attain perfection because no one ever is, but to reach your realistic objective.

Do not make your mind your enemy. You are not your enemy.

Learn to live with your flaws with a smile just like I did and am doing. 

The Art of Waiting

The Art of Waiting


"Chase your dreams,

 And chase it fast."

We live in a fast-paced environment where everything changes in a blink of an eye. This, in turn, force the living to cope and adapt with the ever-changing world. This is just a fact. In addition, it seems that some people use this as a way to live life too.

"We need to get our applications fast"

 "Ugh okay I'm not promoted after 3 months of working real hard, I'll leave this job to go look for a higher position in a different company."

 "He should like me back once I messaged him"

 "Lose weight in a day"

 "I need to finish this drama in a day"

 "If I study for five minutes, I hope I'll pass"

These are just some examples of day to day sentences that, admit it, some people utter. Because of the way time flies so fast, people sometimes forget how to relax, take their time and wait for the fruits of their hardwork to grow.

We forget to savor the moments we cherish because we have gotten used to rushing things that it already became a habit.

Some things in life isn't supposed to be immediate. There are instances that requires long term hardwork and determination. Just like studying and going through stages of education before braving to face the world. Or getting to know the right girl or guy to spend the rest of your life with. These are some of the things that many people encounter in their lives.

So my dear readers, here's my advice to those of you that are always in a hurry, stop whatever your  doing and breathe. Take notice of the world around you, despite of all the horrors its been through, it's beautiful, no? Now, take time to internalize the things you need to stop living fast track.

Let me help you a little,

Stop chasing love, it'll come eventually.

you'll grasp your sweet graduation soon just focus on your lessons.

There are no shortcuts in losing weight, (unless you have the money to see a doctor) just pure hardwork and discipline will get you there.

And many more.

Balance is the key in life.

 Stop living your life in shortcuts. 

Some things are meant to be endured and savored longterm, and the fruits will be so much sweeter.

Power Of Natural Beauty


Last weekend, I was one of the lucky Youtubers who was invited in the Smart Launchpad workshop in FPLA. The event was very successful in my opinion with a few flaws of course. However, this post is not about Smart Launchpad, but this will focus on my final entry.

There were 100 entries, 6 were chosen as winners and all were very talented. Mine was different than most. It may be the shortest, may be the worst, but I wanted to tackle a very important issue in the beauty community. The beauty definition nowadays, is based on the latest trends. From eyebrows on fleek to Kylie Jenner lips, some people try to be someone they're not and they think it's beautiful. I'm not against that, however, sometimes it ventures away from the appreciation of an individual's natural beauty.

Thus,

The main point of this short video was to inspire teens, women, men or just people in general that beauty is first and foremost found in you and not with what you wear or put on your face.

Instead of the title "Power of Makeup", I used "Power of Natural Beauty" instead, to remind you, that you're beautiful with or without makeup.


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